We are an informal network of people who are learning to trust our own and our children's ability to choose the best ways to learn and grow. Ned and I are parents of a 21 year old son. When Cassidy was a baby, we were inspired by John Holt, who said "Children do not need to be made to learn, or shown how. They want to and they know how." We decided that Cassidy would determine what, when, where, how much and with whom he would learn. We never used school books or taught lessons. We answered his questions when he asked and helped him gain access to the real world when he wanted it. We called it unschooling.

When we went to homeschool support group meetings, the conversation was usually "How do I get my kids to do math, what curriculum do I choose, etc." When we said we don't "teach" our son, there might be one or two other parents who said "We don't either, but we thought we were the only ones." So we started a support group.

We hold family gatherings -- usually on the third Saturday of every other month. We come together to play and socialize, to support and encourage each other, to share ideas and information, and to reassure ourselves that we are not alone in believing that children and adults can be responsible for our own learning. We publish an occasional newsletter, a learning exchange list, and a mailing list.

Now our son is a junior at Hunter College in New York City, on the Dean's List, living in his own apartment, enjoying college and city life. We continue to do this group because we love talking to people about homeschooling and we enjoy holding their hands as they make the leap into self directed learning.

Please call us if you have questions. We look forward to hearing from you and meeting you.